Like a man will go the extra mile to dig through a land that appears ordinary to every other person, every man must skillfully bring out the many treasures buried within his wife.
Women are filled with potentials. They are givers, multipliers and helpers by nature. Just like a Land is filled with different nutrients placed there by God, every woman is filled with undiscovered and untapped potentials.
What a Land yields is dependent on the type of Seed
planted on it. Who your Wife will become is dependent on the kind of Word-Seeds you plant into her. Do you recognize how valuable your Wife is or do you despise her potentials and leave her un-cultivated?
Are you just interested in sex and not interested in the realization of her dreams?
Appreciate her. Treat her with great honour and God will bless both of you.
If you are not married yet, but in a relationship, treat with great urgency any issues that borders on respect, value, dignity and appreciation.
There is a great wisdom when you honour your Wife. The reason for this is not far-fetched! The woman was created principally to assist the man.
God himself looked at Adam, and concluded that this guy sure needs some help!
Gen 2:18 AMP
Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the Man should be alone; I will make him a help meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.
What the Holy Spirit does for a believer in the spirit realm is what a Wife does to her husband in the physical. She is the helper!
There are only two people referred to as ‘helper’ in the whole of the scriptures, The Holy Spirit and of course, your Wife!
There are only two people that God protected so much in the scriptures, the Holy Spirit and your Wife!
God said, do not vex my Spirit!
Jesus said, my blood would wash away all sins except the sin against the Holy Spirit!
Paul said, grieve not the Spirit!
Concerning the Woman,
God said, a Woman shall compass the man!
Paul said, treat her with honour so that your prayers can be answered!?
When you look at all these, it’s simply wisdom to treat your Wife right.
This is not a license for the Wife to sit back and get cocky while dis-respecting her husband perpetually. It will really not work out like that!
Ladies should be careful not to allow self-inflicted problems in their home and then turn around to blame their husbands. How do you know when a lady is not fulfilling her ministry as her husband’s helper?
- She is not sincere. She lies to her husband and before God without remorse. She lies and then manipulates her husband with her moods and withdrawal treatments when confronted. Only truth makes free. Lies and deceptions will incapacitate the Woman’s ministry as the helper!
- She has her eyes outside. She does not value her husband and she is prone to comparison traps all the time. She uses her mouth to appreciate God but deep down in her heart, she does not really appreciate God nor is she thankful because she is blurred by comparison.
- She never supports what her husband is doing. Rather than help him, she fights him all the time, most time indirectly, because she is selfish and sees the attempt of her husband at progress as competing with her.
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN A HUSBAND IS FRUSTRATING THE HELPER IN HIS WIFE?
Come up tomorrow…