- He shuts her up. He leaves her behind. He does not want her progress because he is insecure. What he fails to understand is that her progress would have translated to help for him. But threat and insecurity will not allow!
- He is un-spiritual. He is carnal. He does not pray nor does he value the things of God. He has no fear of God nor regard for men. This will affect his Wife’s productivity in a huge way.
- He cheats on her. He womanizes. He will unwittingly invite chaos into his home without knowing! His Wife will be unhappy and will not be able to function maximally.
Even as singles, all these symptoms are easily diagnosed in any relationship. Rather than close your eyes because you are in love, confront issues and sort them out so that you can have a great marriage. Marriage comes with its pressures, but combining more issues can be truly overwhelming. Get a mentor over your relationship and learn all you can. Be prayerful. Do not deceive yourself. You will live with your decision, for the next 40 to 60 years or so. Thinks well and pray well before you make your decision! Shine your eye!
I pray for you this morning that God will give you the wisdom you need to make adjustments and changes where they are needed in Jesus name.
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My husband will value me. I appreciate God?s grace and gift in my life. I will fulfill my destiny.
I will honour and value my wife. She is an addition to me.
PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, strengthen our family on all fronts. Give us heavenly wisdom to handle all earthly challenges.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Pe 3:7 MSG
The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to let your spouse know you value him/her today
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